Ndi banja lachinyamata lokonda kwambiri! Zokambilana zawo zikuonekeratu kuti akhala limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali. Koma, komabe, ndikuganiza kuti mtsikanayo amalankhula kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, sakondwera kwenikweni ndi ndondomekoyi ndipo salola kuti wokondedwa wake aganizire.
Chabwino, abale ndi alongo a theka ndi alongo sali pachibale nkomwe, kotero sichingaganizidwe kukhala chinthu choipa kapena chachiwerewere. Nzosadabwitsa kuti munthu wamkulu mnyamata ndi mtsikana, popanda zibwenzi nthawi zonse zogonana ndipo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kukhala pafupi wina ndi mzake, mwadzidzidzi anakopeka pa mlingo kugonana wina ndi mnzake. Poganizira kuti mtsikanayo ankakonda (mnyamata ndiye palibe funso), ndikuganiza kuti apitiriza kuchita zinthu zamtunduwu nthawi ndi nthawi.
Msungwana wamng'onoyo anaganiza kuti ayenera kukondweretsa mlangizi kuti apambane mayeso. Ndipo kotero iye anayamwa tambala wake, ndiyeno analumphira pamwamba pa iye.